Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Bits of This and That..

So...

Got a tattoo

I've been wanting another tattoo for about a year now. This marks my 4th and is representative of my husband and me. It has been less than a week since I got it and I have to say it is healing perfectly. The above picture was taken right after I got it.
And...

The Alkaline Trio and New Found Glory concert was amazing! They played Sunday night at The Aragon (a very quick bus ride from our apartment) My better half and me  LOVE, love, loooove pop punk rock - we sang our hearts out and drink a lot of beer. Luckily, I had the next day off. Bryan recently put in a lot of overtime at work that paid off - he was able to head into work 2 hours later than normal the next morning.

The set list for both, in my opinion, were fantastic.  For Alkaline Trio click here; For NFG click here


Oh...

Tomorrow is my birthday. So, learn a bit about Scorpios if you don't already know. I am without a doubt a true Scorpio. (yah, ok so you don't believe in that stuff. No biggie, I do and it's my blog!) xoxo

Scorpio is the eighth sign of the zodiac, and that shouldn't be taken lightly -- nor should Scorpios! Those born under this sign are dead serious in their mission to learn about others. There's no fluff or chatter for Scorpios, either; these folks will zero in on the essential questions, gleaning the secrets that lie within. Scorpios concern themselves with beginnings and endings, and are unafraid of either; they also travel in a world that is black and white and has little use for gray. The curiosity of Scorpios is immeasurable, which may be why they are such adept investigators. These folks love to probe and know how to get to the bottom of things. The fact that they have a keen sense of intuition certainly helps. 

The Scorpion symbolizes Scorpio, and that is no accident. Much like the Scorpion would rather kill itself than be killed, those born under this sign are in ultimate control of their destiny. It is life on the Scorpion's terms, too, since these folks promote their agenda (they are quite the executives) and see to it that things go forward. Others may find this overbearing (it can be) and even self-destructive, but that's the beauty of the Scorpio: they have tremendous regenerative powers, much like the literal Scorpion can lose its tail and promptly grow a new one. Fearless Scorpios rarely lose; they just keep on going, since they are stubborn and determined to succeed (this Scorpio trait is in keeping with the Fixed Quality assigned to this sign). Scorpios work as hard as they do so they can someday sit back and feel satisfied with themselves. These folks are intense, passionate and filled with desire. They're also complex and secretive, so don't expect to get much out of them, lest they become suspicious and exit stage left. It's best not to bet against Scorpios, either, since these folks are surprisingly resourceful. 

Scorpio is ruled by Mars and Pluto. Mars was the God of War in ancient Roman mythology and is the first (and most ancient) ruler of Scorpio. When Pluto was discovered in the 20th century, it was also assigned to this sign. Pluto was known as the God of the Underworld in ancient Roman times, so when coupled with Mars, expect some intense energy to head toward Scorpions here on Earth. This planetary combo makes for people who are motivated, penetrating and aware. Scorpions don't miss much, since they are highly attuned to the vibrations of others. They are intuitive, probing and very focused on knowing who's who and what's what. Scorpios can lose their temper (and even become vengeful) when someone gets in their way, so it's best to give them plenty of room. Remember, they're unafraid, and a loss today simply means an opportunity for victory tomorrow. 

The Element associated with Scorpio is Water. As opposed to the 'roiling seas' seen in other Water Signs, a better motto for Scorpios would be 'still waters run deep.' Those born under this sign are as emotional as their waterborne brethren, it's just that they're not as likely to show it. The Scorpio's emotions are repressed, kept under cover. Again, these are secrets to be used another day. That said, be aware that these folks are clever, perceptive and always in the mix. Their ability to see into things can sometimes be a curse for Scorpios, however, since they can take an insignificant matter and turn it into a huge slight. Beware the Scorpio who feels crossed! These folks can turn vindictive in no time flat. Luckily, once Scorpios catch their breath, they will return to their usual determined and loyal (albeit strong-willed) ways. Finally, while Scorpios aren't above some subtle manipulation to get what they want, they'd much rather take a scientific, even mystical path. The Scorpio-born are powerful and passionate, qualities that serve them well, as long as they don't let them deteriorate into self-indulgence or compulsion. 

Scorpios love competition in both work and play, which is why they'll air it out in sports and games. Extreme sports are right up Scorpio's alley, as is most anything that will test their mettle. They've got to have an adversary, since it makes the game that much more fun. Scorpio's colors? Powerful red and serious black. When it comes to love, though, Scorpios soften up a bit and are caring and devoted with their lovers, even if they do hold on a bit tight. Scorpios are also lusty in the extreme (how else?), so they need to be mindful of their reproductive organs. 

The great strength of the Scorpio-born is in their determination, passion and motivation. Scorpios don't know the word quit, which is why they usually get the job done. A powerhouse? Like no other.

Wednesday, November 13, 2013

Go find it - Go be IT.



Unconventional beauty is much more appealing especially when the beauty is true and whole hearted. I mean, it's easy to put a face on and outwardly appear beautiful, but if that face (and by face I'm metaphorically speaking) doesn't match a beautiful heart and soul then it's useless, in my humble opinion. I am drawn to true beauty - one with integrity. I have seen many ugly truths and some I have to grin and bare it. I am mature enough to understand that social and work politics exist. This realization does aid to my cynicism in people and chips away a bit at my gregarious nature. So I urge.. request..

be beautiful.
be true.
be with only good intention.

Afterall, doesn't anything else just weigh you down and drown out all the amazing things life is offering?

Thursday, November 7, 2013

ODE TO SELF




I always thought once I'd hit my 30's I would be so secure and confident that nothing or no one would have me second guessing myself. Welp, I was wrong. I'm a couple weeks away from turning 33 and, not that it is often at all, but I do have my moments of self doubt. Hey, who doesn't!?

However, I am much more confident then I have ever been. I think there is a beauty in growing older and knowing year after year you settle more into your own skin. I am thankful that I no longer need validation of my worth that so many of us desperately seek in our adolescences and early 20's. I love that I know what I like and how I like it. Professionally, I feel strong in my talents, skills and value add. This is who I AM.  

And, whenever those moments of  self doubt seep in I quickly dig deep and remind myself that it's OK to be ME. And, if I am feeling negative vibes from others I know it is most likely that they are not comfortable within themselves that making you feel badly is what they need.  

Bottom line, as I see it, under no circumstance should you ever feel you need to alter who you fundamentally are as person. Love who you are and OWN IT.  

Be your authentic self and never apologize!




Friday, November 1, 2013

My Favorite Month


Ahhh, November, my favorite- it's chalked full of goodness!

My birthday
Thanksgiving
The month that reminds me to SEE all the amazing things around me and to be thankful for all that I have. (We should always be thankful, but it's this month that give my senses an extra boost)

I have always felt November marks a time for new beginnings and reflection.  

Love you, November. xoxo